I think I know what you're trying to get at here.
We as people have been brought up to live by a code of moral standards, and anything less is percieved as abnormal or something "wrong." If we don't act a certain way, we aren't accepted into alot of groups, organizations, or even society. We're so tied up in trying to become someone we aren't to fit in other crowds it destroys us.
Anyway that's my interpretation.
p.s. think for yourself, question authority.